aMOMymous: Emotional Desert

“Are you going somewhere, Mommy?”

Our three year old asked if I was leaving.

Deflated and a little caught off guard I asked his father, my husband, “Do you know why he said that?”

“Yes.”

Minutes earlier I’d felt a surge of affectionate energy towards my husband and, after a request to come my way so I could offer it, he slowly slumped his way over.  I grabbed the father of my two children by his shirt collar, pulling him down to my level so I could press my lips hard against his unshaven face.  For the first time in a long time, I inhaled his scent and, enjoying it, let my kiss linger for a moment, remembering those days when he’d drive me to the water’s edge and we’d sit in silence, heads pressed firmly as one, breathing and listening to our hearts growing…

And then there was nothing, as if nothing had happened.  And the room filled again with a silent void.  And we were strangers again.

“Mommy! Are you going somewhere?”

Our oldest son thought I was on my way out, since the occasional kiss happens only when one of us is leaving. It’s kind of like clockwork. It’s hit or miss. It’s seldom passionate, always brief and distracted.  It’s the only time he sees his parents openly show their love for each other.  But we do love each other – don’t we?

It’s funny how romance seems to dry up when children enter the home.  The love is still there and, with each birth, it actually grows and evolves in to all kinds of new love.  And we cast so much of that love in to the sea of chaos that is raising a family that we chronically forget to kindle the flame that got us to “family” in the first place.

There’s so much joy and tenderness in our hearts, and it’s mostly because of our kids.  And, ironically, there’s an absence of presence in our marriage because of kids.

Where kids fill up an emotional oasis, my marriage drains in to an emotional desert.

 

3000 Fan Giveaway! Cookbook

Rounding out our giveaways for this week is 1 Hot and Hot Fish Club Cookbook.

This book contains over 200 creative and delicious recipes that are organized to reflect the seasonal nature of local ingredients. It features profiles of over a dozen purveyors who supply the restaurant with the freshest ingredients. With over 50 full-color photographs, lifestyle menus complete with wine and beer pairings, and an extensive sourcing section, it is your guide to eating exquisite fresh cuisine from the hottest restaurant in the South.

Just leave a comment here on the post to be entered, 1 per person, per day. Giveaway will end Sunday, Sept 25th at Noon.

Thanks again to everyone for helping us reach 3000 fans, we hope you will continue to share us. Word of mouth is very important to us and we appreciate you taking the time to pass us along to your friends!

GenBump: Modern Advice for Modern Moms

Brookwood Women’s Center and BirminghamMommy.com are partnering up for a series of events just for you Modern Moms! Think girls night out coupled with meaningful speakers and a panel of Moms that have been through it all already.

Some of the topics we will be discussing throughout the series will include:  surviving baby’s first days at home, blogging your pregnancy and childs life stories and milestones, birthplans, and more!

Join us for our kick off event, September 29th, “Secrets of Mommyhood,” where mommy experts will share tips on where kids eat free, stores with great membership programs, the best online sites for sales and shopping, how to get free books for your kids,  and must-have mobile phone apps.

Visit www.genbump.com or call 205.877.8800 or 888.276.6596 for more information and to register for this great event. We can’t wait to see you there!

Gender Reveal Parties, Sharing the Big News!

It seems like gender reveals parties have become more and more popular thanks to the Todays show and the Duggars. Not that revealing the sex of your child hasn’t always been a big deal but the way people are choosing to announce it to their families (and sometimes learn for the first time themselves) is becoming more and more creative and fun!

In case you aren’t familiar with a “Gender Reveal Party” it goes something like this.. The expectant couple will have a bakery bake a cake that is non-descript on the outside and filled with pink or blue on the inside. They will have a party with family and friends and cut into the cake revealing the pink or blue middle. I know couples that have managed to pull this off without themselves even knowing the gender of the baby so that they were surprised right along with their guests.

But are we expecting too much from our guests to assume that they will be as excited to learn about the sex of our child as we are? Is it presumptuous or narcissistic? I tend to think that anyone you would put on the guest list would be excited about the news and at the very least looking for an excuse to attend a party. Not to mention that you get the opportunity to learn the news yourself in a way that is fun, and takes you out of the sterile Doctors office.

So we say, if you can handle the suspense of not knowing, why not have a little fun with the big news!

What are your thoughts? Are gender reveal parties just a fad? How did you share the big news about your bundle of joy?

Healthy Afternoon Snack Ideas

We recently filmed a fun segment with our friends over at Daytime Alabama and we gave them all of our tips and tricks for making after school snacking healthy and fun.

We of course had to include one of our new favorite finds, Kidfresh Foods. If you haven’t tried them, the quesedillas make a great easy and quick afternoon snack. They are available at Whole Foods and several of our local Publix stores.

Check out the video for some fun ideas! What type of healthy snacks do your children enjoy?

Champions for Health After School Snacks

 

*Buggy snack idea from Little Page Turners

Symphony 30 Picnic 2011 Giveaway

** Giveaway has ended, Thanks to everyone for participating **

BirminghamMommy is excited to have another giveaway for this great Birmingham Event coming up this weekend.

The Symphony 30 nonprofit group of women in Birmingham, Ala. will host its annual Symphony 30 Picnic. The event this year will be held once again at the Birmingham Botanical Gardens, with the proceeds going to help the Alabama Symphony Orchestra and specifically their family and education programs. We are pleased to announce Jim ‘N Nicks Bar B Q and Brookwood Medical Center as our lead sponsors to the 2011 event. Along with dinner generously donated by Jim ‘N Nicks and a symphony concert, activities will include an art table where children can make their own musical instruments.

The Symphony 30 Group is comprised of approximately 80 young women, who are committed to the legacy and future of the Alabama Symphony Orchestra. The Symphony 30 Group has raised more than $330,500 for education programs at the Alabama Symphony Orchestra.

The event is this Sunday, September 25th at the beautiful Botanical Gardens. 4pm

Thanks to our friends over at Brookwood Medical Center, we have 2 family packs up for grabs (value of $60 each) Here’s how you can win!

1. Leave a comment telling us what musical instrument you played growing up or wish you would have learned to play. 1 entry per person, per day.

2. Follow @BrookwoodMed on twitter – (Come back to this post and leave a comment letting us know you followed/follow them) 1 entry per person

3. Follow @BirminghamMommy on twitter – (Come back to this post and leave a comment letting us know you followed/follow us) 1 entry per person

4. Tweet the following: “Thanks to @BrookwoodMed, @BirminghamMommy is giving away tickets to the Symphony 30 Picnic! http://ow.ly/6ySBq”  (1 entry per person, per day.)

That’s it – 4 easy ways to win. 2 winners will be chosen at random and their names will be placed on the guest list for the event! Best of luck to you all!! If you aren’t our lucky winners you can still purchase your tickets to this fabulous event!!

Contest ends at 2pm on Wednesday, September 21st – We will contact the winners via email and it will be the responsibility of the winner to contact us with the required information. Family pack includes admission for 2 adults and their children.

3000 Fan Giveaway! Swag

*** GIVEAWAY IS CLOSED! THANKS FOR READING AND WATCH FOR MORE GIVEAWAYS COMING SOON!***

Because you, our readers are so incredibly awesome and helped get us to 3000+ fans on Facebook we are going to celebrate this week with some random giveaways!

First up, not all of you were able to make it to the Moms Rock Event last week, which means you missed out on the awesome swag we were handing out… Or did you? We have a couple of leftovers and we will randomly draw 2 names to win one each.

Just leave a comment here on this post, 1 per person please. This giveaway will end Monday (Sept 18th) at 2pm and winners will be announced on Facebook and via the email attached to your comment. Good luck!

Birmingham Events Calendar: September 18th – September 25th

A huge thank you again to everyone that came out to our Moms Rock Event last week! We appreciate everyone that pulled together to make it happen and look forward to doing it again next year and honoring more Birmingham Moms who Rock!

Lots of storytimes this week as well as Sunset Cinemas at Railroad Park, and the always fun Whistlestop Festival.

The weather is great for getting outside so make sure to check out your local park or even the Botanical or Aldridge Gardens!

It’s Not Our Fault if Your Kids are Bored!

Sunday September 18th:

Barts Art Cart – Birmingham Museum of Art
Make a drum inspired by African musical instruments with Bart! The Museum now offers a fun and free drop-in art program for kids and families! Visit Bart’s Art Cart in the main lobby to discover great art and create some art of your own with the help of our Teen Volunteers. Each month highlights a different gallery and features a new art activity. Learn how to look at art with your child, then stop by and make art with Bart!
11am

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Monday September 12th:

Monday Movie – Homewood Library
Join us for a fun flick and a tasty treat!
3:30pm

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Tuesday September 13th:

Storytime – Homewood Public Library
Join us for the fun of it! All ages welcome. For larger groups, a call is nice but not necessary.
10:30am

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Wednesday September 14th:

Wonderful Wednesday Storytime – Barnes and Noble Summit
Three Little Pigs – We’re gonna huff and puff while we read The Three Little Pigs! Can we stop the Big Bad Wolf from blowing down their houses? Let’s play with NOOK and sip on a sweet treat from our Cafe, then create some arts and crafts.
11am

Family Story Time with Mr MacNorth Shelby Library
Storyteller Extraordinaire – Come join Mr Mac and his musical storytime complete with puppets! All Ages, no registration required.
10:45am

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Thursday September 15th:

Sunset Cinemas – Railroad Park
The Devil Wears Prada – 7pm
George’s Boxcar Cafe and Jim ‘N Nick’s Barbecue will be selling food and drink during the movies! George’s Boxcar Cafe will have all of your movie favorites, including popcorn, nachos, and candy; PLUS they will be serving cocktails! Jim ‘N Nick’s will be grilling their famous barbecue and will have other delectable Southern treats, including their famous cheese biscuits!

What to bring: a blanket or lawn chair and cash or credit card to so that you can purchase delicious food and beverages from George’s Boxcar Cafe and Jim N Nick’s!

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Friday September 16th:

OTM Moms Club – Open House
Open House and Membership Drive
There will be snacks and crafts for the kids while moms have a chance to chat. A few prizes too!
Homewood Central Park
10:00am – 12:30

Story Day with Nene – Whole Foods
stories, songs, and snacks as Mrs. Renee Schmidt leads the fun.
10am

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Saturday September 17th

Whistle Stop Festival – Irondale
The twentieth Annual Irondale Whistle Stop Festival will be held on Saturday, September 24th. This year the festival will be celebrating Irondale’s history and rich artistic community. This year we are going to “step back in time” with- historic costumes and demonstrations. Also this year we are working with Studio By the Tracks to return fine art to the festival. In the spirit of “stepping back in time” we are adding “old time” children’s activities like checkers, hopscotch and cake walk on Irondale’s historic North side, as well as Children’s activities and more on the South side.

The Irondale Whistle Stop Festival is located in Historic Irondale. The Irondale Chamber of Commerce is located in the center of the festival.
9am – 5pm

Meet the Farm Animals – Oak Mountain State Park
Come out to the Petting Farm and meet the animals. Most of them loved to be petted, so be ready to share some love and learn some of the cool facts about these animals.

At the Petting Farm at Oak Mountain State Park
10am

Bart’s Art Cart – Birmingham Museum of Art
Make a drum inspired by African musical instruments with Bart! The Museum now offers a fun and free drop-in art program for kids and families! Visit Bart’s Art Cart in the main lobby to discover great art and create some art of your own with the help of our Teen Volunteers. Each month highlights a different gallery and features a new art activity. Learn how to look at art with your child, then stop by and make art with Bart!
11am

Saturday Market – Pepper Place
7am – Noon

Saturday Storytime– Barnes and Noble Summit
12 Dancing Princesses – Who will solve the mystery of the sleepy princesses and their worn out shoes? Join us for 12 Dancing Princesses and play with NOOK. Then we will do some arts and crafts and sip on something sweet from our Cafe.
11am

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Sunday September 25th:

Cahaba River Fry Down – Trussville Springs
Benefting the Cahaba River Society
11a.m. – 4p.m.
Tickets: $20
(Children 12 and under free)
www.frydown.com

Barts Art Cart – Birmingham Museum of Art
Make a drum inspired by African musical instruments with Bart! The Museum now offers a fun and free drop-in art program for kids and families! Visit Bart’s Art Cart in the main lobby to discover great art and create some art of your own with the help of our Teen Volunteers. Each month highlights a different gallery and features a new art activity. Learn how to look at art with your child, then stop by and make art with Bart!
11am

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Local Attractions Open Daily!

McWane Science Center:

Eat Well, Play Well Exhibit:
What is in the food we eat? Are fruits and vegetables important? Can everyday activities burn calories? Visitors will find the answers to these questions by exploring nutrition and fitness in this summer’s traveling exhibit called Eat Well, Play Well. This highly-interactive exhibit encourage healthy living by teaching the science of making healthy-food choices and helping children and adults discover that there are many fun and interesting ways to stay active. Visitors will discover what an appropriate serving size looks like, see first hand what it takes to burn off calories, test their flexibility and balance, review the latest clinical research and realize that they can reduce their risk of disease with healthy choices that are within their reach.

IMAX
McWane Science Center’s IMAX® Dome Theater puts you in the center of the action by projecting breathtaking quality images onto the 5-story-tall dome screen and delivering intense surround sound through almost 3 tons of speakers and subwoofers.
Now Showing: Tornado Ally,  Born to Be Wild, and Wild Ocean.

Birmingham Zoo:

Lorikeet Aviary – Our Lorikeet Aviary has more birds than ever! Zoo guests can feed these exotic birds every day. You and your family will see these birds’ behavior as they eat nectar out of your hand.
Weekends 10:00 am – 4:00 pm

PELICAN FEEDING – A great way to see our pelicans in action is to witness them eating their favorite treats near the pelican boardwalk.

RHINO ENCOUNTER – Embark on an African adventure and experience one of the world’s most extraordinary animals, the Southern White Rhino. Watch from only feet away as our zookeepers engage in hands-on interaction with the animals inside their African-themed exhibit. Don’t miss this exciting encounter with one of the largest mammals on the planet!
Weekdays: 3pm – 3:30pm
Weekends: 11:30am – Noon & 3pm – 3:30 pm

GIRAFFE FEEDING – This up close and personal animal encounter is a memory you and your family will have for a lifetime.
Weekday: 11am – Noon
Weekends: 10am – 11am  & 2pm – 3pm

Vulcan Park and Museum:

Vulcan is the world’s largest cast iron statue; made of 100,000 pounds of iron and 56 feet tall, he stands at the top of Red Mountain overlooking the city of Birmingham. But, Vulcan is more than a statue. Vulcan Park and Museum features spectacular views of Birmingham, an interactive history museum that examines Vulcan and Birmingham’s story, and a beautiful public park for visitors and locals to enjoy. With an official information center that is operated by the Greater Birmingham Convention and Visitors Bureau, Vulcan Park and Museum serves as the first stop for visitors to the Birmingham area!

Railroad Park:

Railroad Park is a 19 acre green space in downtown Birmingham that celebrates the industrial and artistic heritage of our great city. Situated along 1st Avenue South, between 14th and 18th Streets, the park is a joint effort between the City of Birmingham and the Railroad Park Foundation. Hailed as “Birmingham’s Living Room,” Railroad Park provides a historically rich venue for local recreation, family activities, concerts, and cultural events, while connecting Birmingham’s downtown area with Southside and UAB’s campus.

Southern Museum of Flight:

Earn Your Wings – Bring your little pilot and soar above the clouds in our little pilots room. Kids enjoy building aircrafts, flying kites, and more.
Museum Open Tuesday – Thursday
9:30am – 4:30pm

Do you have or know of an event you would like to have added to our weekly calendar? Please email us at contact@birminghammommy.com, subject line “Events Calendar” – We would love to hear from you!

** All information listed on our calendar is subject to change without notice to us or you… We do our best to keep the information accurate and will always update as soon as we learn that something has changed. It’s always best to double check with the event via their website or a quick call,  especially when weather can impact the event.

aMOMymous: The Darkness Soothes us Both

I wake in the dark, angst ripping like a tidal wave through the void that fills a once-abundant fountain within me.

He’s crying in the night.
He’s in need.
I reach out, winded and tethered.
I lift him in my arms.

The darkness soothes us both.

Subdued, I withdraw to that fetal breath; that in and out; that ebb and flow; that fleeting force that once took over and now takes leave.  My selfish, shallow attempt to resurrect a portion of Self only bends to reason and, like an abandoned ship, I drift in stillness.

I satisfy his basic needs.
I nurture.
He grows with each passing moment and my heart swells, tides of tenderness pumping in rhythm with his own heart’s beating.

Wakefulness –  I’m wide awake, but yet I find myself bleeding numb to the tremors of this life, this presence.  I cling to a hope of finding my way back to a familiar presence, finding my way out of this abyss, finding out how and when and just how much.

Here, now.
I am here now.
I am here.

Staring deep in to the darkness, I begin to catch shimmering glimpses of an authentic joy.  He’s quietly nursing in my arms.  He’s the breath I created.  He’s my here, my now.

There is always love.
There is always hope.
Here in this darkness.
Here in this darkness.

Meet our 2011 Moms Rock! Finalists

We are super excited to announce the 10 finalists for this years Moms Rock Event. We had more than 60 nominees and it was a very difficult task to narrow it down to only 10. After much deliberation here are the amazing women chosen for this year.

Take a moment and read over these incredible stories!

 

Drew Ann Long-  She is mom to 3 children including her special needs daughter named Caroline. As Caroline grew older and bigger, it was increasingly hard for Drew Ann to take Caroline to the grocery with her, an outing that she so enjoyed. So Drew Ann invented a shopping cart for special needs children and adults. It’s been designed and debuted here in Birmingham. Here is an article about Drew Ann and Caroline. And a short video.  Drew Ann was also instrumental in helping to bring a Sunday School class for special needs children in her community. And although she’d humbly tell you there were others she thinks are far more worthy, she’s just a lovely person all together.


Jennifer Henley
-When her children were just 3 and 2, her husband suffered a terrible accident while playing with the children. A chin up bar gave way, and he fell only a few feet. However, the accident left him a paraplegic.  Jennifer has handled this with a grace and strength. She not only continued to care for her two children, but also her husband.  She continues to be an amazing Mom, and a great friend. She is the first person to bring you soup when you are sick, and never complains about her situation.

Abi Williams. Mrs. Williams has a place in her heart for kids who have a hard time seeing their own potential. She is a bright light for her students. She lets us be a part of her family which is such a loving, happy family. Her girls are so lucky to have a mom who tries so hard to take them everywhere she is even if she is so tired because of it. We sometimes say she is a crazy old lady before she is even old because Mrs. Williams will just say or do anything,  she doesn’t hold back. She is just so fun and out there. She will push you when you need it and hug you when you need it. Her office is where we all know we can go for a safe place. We all know her kids and her husband and we all wish she was our mom too.  Mrs. Williams is the coolest mom around and I hope you will nominate her for the coolest and rockinest mom in Birmingham. For me, that would be an understatement!

Roxane Mackin, nominated by her 11 year old. My Mom deserves every award there is for being the best Mom ever. My Mommy has done everything for me since the day I was born. She has taught me to be kind and respectful to my friends and teachers and family. She has helped me understand that in life you always have to be responsible for your actions. She has taught me how important it is to have good manners and always be polite. She has taught me the right values that I will have with me for my whole life. For 11 years my Mommy has always put me first and has sacrificed a lot to make sure all my needs have been met every day of my life. She makes sure I have a good breakfast every single morning because she says “you can think better at school if you have a healthy breakfast.” I play tennis and am in advanced tumbling. My Mother has never missed a tennis tournament in 5 years and has given me the chance to improve my tumbling skills which got me to the advanced level. Everything I have is because my Mommy has made it happen. My Mom is so beautiful, but she especially has the biggest heart. Most important of all is I always know my Mommy is there for me and loves me more than anything in this world.  I hope you will give this honor to my Mommy. She works so hard, but always has time for me no matter what. If she has to make a choice between doing something for herself or doing something to help me, she always picks helping me just because she loves me. My Mom is definitely a Mom that rocks!!!!

Laura Kate Whitney.  As a nominee from last year, LK is no stranger to the Moms Rock Event and she has taken it to the next level this year.  Now raising two boys, she has recently started a “homeschool experiment” with her three-year-old son, Grey.  She writes and works in event planning when the rest of the family sleeps.  Otherwise, she’s being spit up on, wiping behinds, etc. Upon moving here two years ago, she started a blog to inspire herself to get out and enjoy/explore Birmingham.  Of course, the blog has ended up inspiring many, many more to do the same.  She hopes to teach her sons as much as she can about this city because their roots are here.  LK is extremely kind and outgoing, making friends wherever she goes.  She has a huge heart, frequently calling others’ attention to injustices and important social causes. LK rocks as a mom, a friend, and a neighbor (I should know since she lives right next door)!

Keagan Wilson is the mother of a 3 year old girl, Harleyana, and 7 year old boy, Payten.  She works 40 hours a week (and most often works even more than that) as a telephone service representative for a Post-Secondary Education company called CARS.  She also is a full time student, in her third year now, working on a degree in Forensic Investigation.  Along with her full time job, and being a full time student, she also takes time out of her schedule to be an Avon independent sales rep.  Also, once a year, she’s an actress at our local haunt, Sloss Fright Furnace. And she’s a SINGLE mom??  She regularly volunteers her time to help others and is always helping children.  She makes sure that she’s constantly spending time with her two children and giving them the best that she can provide on her own.  She’s constantly doing new arts & crafts with them, taking them to the park, trips to the zoo, etc.  She always encourages them to read, learn as much as they can and always do their best and everything.  She’s now even a new soccer mom, recently enrolling her son in Soccer.  Her kids, and her family as well, are her life. I have seen her struggles and she always manages to work everything out for the best.  She pulls through like a champ!  She is a wonderful, loving, caring, always upbeat woman.  Coming from an extremely troubled childhood, she’s vowed to give her all into making sure her children have a completely opposite home life than she had.  Beginning as a teen mom, you would never have believed it!  She’s been the best mom I’ve ever seen, never giving up, constantly working as hard as she can to provide for them, and has always done it on her own.

Sarah O’Donnell. Not only is she managing Birmingham’s most popular (and most glossy…) magazine, B-Metro, with more style and poise than I can muster for the fanciest of occasions, but she also manages hours outside of work to help Birmingham move forward – and the life of her most precious son, Gabriel. She holds her family and friends close to her heart, and closest of those are her son and her father, Joe O’Donnell (the most amazing man in this city). Sarah is a non-stop social bee and urbanite who works because she loves too. That doesn’t place her son Gabe in second place, though, as he grows up in the most magic of cities. As a (single) mom, Sarah is constantly including her 3.5-year-old in Birmingham-centric activities that support both the growth of her child and the growth of this city.

Cookbook author and recipe developer, Alison Lewis, is a Rockin’ AND Rollin’ Mom!  This year, she’s been traveling the country promoting her first cookbook, 400 Best Sandwich Recipes, has been a guest speaker at several national and local events, was an invited guest at a recipe cook off in NYC, has been featured in numerous publications, AND manages to stay trim in between,  running marathons –yes, marathons!  Committed to a healthy lifestyle, Alison tests her creative recipes on her 3 active teenagers and a very supportive attorney husband, all while blogging daily and managing sponsorships from her home office.   Her three kids have inherited her energy and enthusiasm, and are active not only in sports,  but also enjoy social media and blogging.  I recently saw her at a blogger conference with kids in tow, iphone buzzing, and a smile on her face!  As a result, her daughter Leigh, started her own blog, sharing her tips for back to school shopping.  Alison seems to thrive on all the activity and that makes life fun and certainly interesting for her family and friends.  I admire her organization, her talent, her tenacity, and her unwavering commitment to her family and her work.  She’s the first to tell you that she’s not an overnight publishing success, having spent 17 years developing recipes.   But with the release of her first internationally published cookbook,  and the support of her family, she’s finally receiving the industry recognition that she deserves!

 My friend Amy Johnson is a Rockin’ Mom.  Amy manages to juggle her career, family and friends all while maintaining a positive attitude.  Amy would love to be able to spend more time with her beautiful daughter Brooke. And although keeping up with a busy career and six year old is not always easy, she makes the most of what time she has.  She is an amazing mom and one only has to see her with her daughter to know the depth of their relationship.  She ensures Brooke has all she needs and is well rounded.  Amy has a heart of gold and is one person you can always count on to be there for you any time and any where.


Brittney Smith
– is an incredible mom. In spite of burying a child in 1999, and a sister-in-law in 2001, she has managed to keep her head up and bring light & encouragement to so many in our community (Pell City). She is a very active Disney Travel Agent, but somehow makes the time to be the room mom in our youngest son’s class, as well as serving as Secretary for the Pell City High School Touchdown Club. B also helps lead a Sunday School class for young couples in our church. Between washing, cooking, cleaning, transporting kids to church & sports, helping with my aging parents, raising money for the football & basketball teams, and planning hundreds of Disney vacations, B is the ultimate mom.