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Spring Break Giveaway!

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CONTEST IS CLOSED

As promised from our post yesterday we have 2 AWESOME giveaways that will help you get your spring break started with a bang!

First up -From our friends at the Tennessee Aquarium. We have for one lucky reader, 4 passes to the Tennessee Aquarium, 4 passes to the Creative Discovery Museum and a 1 night stay at the Chattanooga Choo Choo! That is your spring break wrapped up in a neat little package.

To Enter: (this is a big prize, you’re gonna have to work a little for this one!)

1. Check out the Tennessee Aquarium website and come back here to this post and tell us 1 type of reptile you can find at the aquarium. (1 per person)

2. Show the Tennessee Aquarium some love on Facebook, (come back to this post and let us know you did, 1 entry per person)

3. Sign up for the BirminghamMommy.com Newsletter (come back here and let us know you did, 1 per person)
Also up for grabs, 2 lucky readers will win 4 passes each to the World of Coca Cola in Atlanta.

To Enter:

1. Leave a comment here letting us know your favorite Coca Cola product (1 per person)

2. Show the World of Coca Cola some love on Facebook (come back here and let us know you did, 1 per person)

3. Visit the World of Coca Cola website and tell us what you look forward to seeing most (come back to this post, 1 per person)

A huge thank you to the Tennessee Aquarium and The World of Coca Cola for sponsoring this great spring break kick off! Good luck!

Giveaway will end at Midnight on Sunday Night. the 27th.  Winners will be announced on Monday February 28th. A total of 3 different winners will be chosen at random. Entries will be divided into 2 separate drawings, all entries for the Aquarium in one and all entries for Coca Cola in the other. Readers can complete all of the entry requirements to be entered for both giveaways. It will be the winners responsibility to respond to our notification and claim their prize.

Tiger Mom Boldly Deems Chinese Parenting Superior: The Controversy over Methods of Motherhood

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By Kate Agliata:

In the face of a growing debate regarding lax versus ‘helicopter’ parenting, more and more mothers are beginning to question the fundamental cause and effect of their own parenting style. Much of the controversy comes on the heels of a recent Wall Street Journal piece written by Amy Chua, a Yale law professor.  In the article, (excerpted from Chua’s new book, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother) she deems the super strict “Chinese style” of parenting (not all Chinese parents) to be a superior method, specifically in contrast to any parenting style used by Western parents. The arrival of her theory, accompanied by harsh accounts of her own intolerance as a parent, has stunned Americans, who tend to favor fostering a child’s healthy self esteem, over that child achieving prodigy-like status. Her theory stems from a notion that education is superior, and all else is meaningless. Yet does her brutal honesty—and it is brutal—merit her being portrayed as heartless mother, or an evil dragon lady? Or do we scorn her simply because we are afraid she may be right?

Many parents believe shielding a child from life’s cruel realities is equally as vital as protecting them from actual physical harm. Yet Chua’s philosophy views this notion as one that placates children with an over indulgence of comfort. The belief argues that parenting in this manner will foster dependence, not liberty; will hinder a child from mastering his or her own skill set; and ultimately, through inadequate preparation, will produce a mediocre member of society. Upon reading Chua’s thoughts, my immediate reaction was one of disbelief. Her haughty tone and almost reminiscent-like account of a time when she withheld water, food and even bathroom privileges from her daughter until she mastered a piano piece, were enough to make me want to dial child protective services. Who the heck is this woman? I thought. What exactly are her credentials, and why is it that she believes her parenting methods are superior to mine?

It all comes down to a parent’s implementation plan, and what that involves will determine the future success of a child. According to Chua, the core differences between Western and Chinese styles of parenting can be broken down into several concepts. She explains, Western parents constantly worry about their child’s self esteem. By continuing to reassure our children about how good they are, despite their possibly demonstrating an average, or even below average performance, she says, we are working to build up their psyche, rather than their skills. Chinese parents “assume strength, not fragility,” Chua says, “and as a result they behave very differently.”

Chua asserts that most Chinese parents believe their children should spend the majority of their lives “obeying” their parents and in essence, doing whatever it takes to make them proud. The Chinese style of parenting demands countless hours each day spent tutoring and working with the child in an effort to do nothing but excel. Chua believes that a parent’s sacrifice should be repaid to them by the child achieving nothing less than ultimate success. In contrast, it is often through recognition of true contentment within their children, that parents in the Western world gain a sense of appreciation for their sacrifice.

Overriding your children’s own preference is also a must, according to Chua. She explains that “Chinese parents believe that they know what is best for their children,” despite whatever it is that child desires on their own. She says, “nothing is fun until you’re good at it. To get good at anything you have to work, and children on their own never want to work.” She argues that because children will continually resist, it is all the more crucial for parents to make consistent demands. “Things are always hardest at the beginning, which is where Western parents tend to give up.” She continues (and twists the knife a little deeper), “Western parents have to struggle with their own conflicted feelings about achievement, and try to persuade themselves that they’re not disappointed about how their kids turned out.”

Ouch. Chua’s remarks sting, but I am still not convinced that I should concede to her arrogance, and begin my own parenting pity party—nor should you. It’s true that the Chinese style of parenting typically transforms many children into some of the most successful members of society. Yet, at what cost is this established? Do the joys of these children revolve solely around securing successes? Isn’t there more in life that evokes joy, and if so, isn’t that too, worthy of attaining? When I discover that Chua is a woman who openly states that she is “not good at enjoying life,” and that “happiness is not a concept” she dwells upon, I begin to better understand the motives behind her theory.

For me however, I see myself belonging to a new breed of parents who believe that compromise doesn’t have to mean sacrificing success. I see value in feeling a variety of life’s joys—not just the kind gained from personal achievements. I believe my children should grow up appreciating additional joys in life. I work diligently with them and believe my efforts will help them attain necessary skills; yet, I also promote creativity, daydreaming, and climbing trees. I recognize when they need to put forth more effort, and promptly address their doing so, but you will never hear me call them “lazy.” Instead I choose to extend honesty through a compassionate voice. I emphasize the significance of respect from my children by demonstrating the same reverence toward them. And similarly to the Chinese style of parenting, my own personal confidence leads me to believe that I too, know what is best for my children. However, in contrast, I believe that my children’s own personal dreams are worthy of consideration.

Frankly, when it comes down to it, I’m okay with this compromise—as long as it means my children are still achieving joy in some manner. To me, it is the duty and privilege of a parent to expose children to all of life’s colors. Doing so may forfeit your child’s chances of reaching prodigy status, but will almost always guarantee a more rewarding life.

Kate, a freelance writer and mother of two, most often finds creative inspiration in writing, but occasionally at the bottom of an empty wine glass. She has hijacked her family’s former lifestyle and is in the midst of creating a simpler and greener approach to life. To follow her family’s challenges and successes in this endeavor, visit her blog, at Kate’s Musings. She and her family have lived in Birmingham since 2009.

Spring Break Travel Guide: So Much to Do, So Close to Home

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What are you doing for Spring Break? We’ve got a few ideas for you that require minimal packing and not a lot of planning, so load em’ up! The ideas we have put together are places that are close to Birmingham, so if you can’t get away for the entire week you can take a quick day trip to the A-T-L or an overnight up to Chatty and still feel like you got a vacation…

First up Chattanooga, TN… Do you have any idea how kid friendly this city is?

The centerpiece to downtown Chattanooga is the Tennessee Aquarium. You can’t take a trip to Chattanooga with kids and not make this stop. One of the original big aquariums in the south, they feature both salt and fresh water exhibits, and if you like penguins (how could you not) they have Macaroni and Gentoo Penguins in the Penguins’ Rock exhibit in Ocean Journey.

Want to find Nemo? Clownfish are among the Tennessee Aquarium’s most loved animals thanks to Disney / Pixar’s hit animated film, Finding Nemo.

The Aquarium also offers Animal Encounters. Thousands of species delight Aquarium visitors. Now meet more of the world’s coolest critters up close. Special Animal Encounter programs are offered every hour of every day.

Also near the City Center downtown and only steps away from the Aquarium is the Creative Discovery Museum. It is recognized as one of the premier hands-on children’s museums in the region. If you’re headed to Chattanooga, gather the young and young-at-heart and make plans to visit this Museum. Whether it’s for a couple of hours or a whole day, time spent at the Museum is sure to be worthwhile learning for the whole family.

See Rock City with it’s hiking path along the “Enchanted Flagstone Trail” you take a winding trek through scenic grottos and glens. Or visit Ruby Falls, a thundering 145-foot underground waterfall, a natural wonder located on the scenic Lookout Mountain.

Also worth mentioning and seeing is the Walnut Street Bridge. A pedestrian bridge more than 100 years old. Walk the bridge, rest on the benches, see the sites and play on the playground that is on the other side. Great photo ops with the city as your backdrop, so don’t forget your camera!

Next up, Atlanta, GA. So much to do, so little time. If you only have time for a day trip or just an over-nighter, you will have trouble narrowing down what you want to fit in, in your limited time.

Embark on a refreshing journey with a trip through The World of Coca Cola the only place where you can experience the fascinating story of the world’s best-known beverage brand in a dynamic, multimedia attraction. Get a behind the scenes look at the bottling process, meet and have your picture made with the Coca Cola Polar Bear, check out the secret formula 4-D theater and take your taste buds on a trip around the world with a sampling of more than 60 beverages.

After a morning at the World of Coca Cola, you can head directly over to the Pemberton Cafe which is adjacent to the World of Coca Cola and the Georgia Aquarium. Have a quick lunch and spend the remainder of your day checking out the sharks and fishes in the aquarium.

The Luckie Marietta District, the newest place to be in Atlanta. The district, which stretches from the Georgia Aquarium to the Georgia World Congress Center in downtown Atlanta, is a collection of hotels, attractions and restaurants. Walkable, safe, accessible and full of fun, it is bounded by Centennial Olympic Park Drive and Baker, Luckie, Marietta and Latimer streets. When you visit the Georgia Aquarium, explore the Luckie Marietta District for notable entertainment, meeting facilities, sports venues and dining options, all within easy walking distance

If the weather is nice and you are looking to be outdoors, you must visit Stone Mountain Park. Just 15 minutes from downtown Atlanta and home to the world’s largest piece of exposed granite, this natural wonderland offers 3,200 acres of excitement for every member of the family.

Enjoy a Sky Hike, a Summit Skyride or climb aboard the Scenic Railroad, a full size locomotive with open air cars that will take you on a 5 mile excursion around the mountain

You will also find full service dining and quick service concessions and shopping inside the park.

Other notable kid spots are the Center of Puppetry Arts, Zoo Atlanta (50% off if you’re a Birmingham Zoo member) Fernbank Museum of Natural History (Free admission with McWane membership) Spring training is going on so if you’re a baseball fan, check the Braves Schedule, you might be able to catch a game at Turner Field.

Now we’re going to head south to Mobile AL, about 4 1/2 hours from the Ham’

A must see for the family is the Gulf Coast Exploreum. A Science Center dedicated to increasing the quality of life for the people of the Gulf Coast.  Providing educational opportunities in a fun learning environment is what the Exploreum is all about. You can see more than 150 hands-on science adventures in four permanent galleries: Minds On Hall, Hands On Hall, the Wharf of Wonder and the all-new My BodyWorks, the most advanced health exhibit in the nation. Also on exhibit right now GIANT INSECTS!!! Best of all, McWane Members receive free admission.

Dauphin Island Sea Lab is a great interactive type of aquarium. You get great information about the sea life in the Gulf of Mexico and in the Mobile Bay as well. Kids will see live creatures swimming in their habitats. After seeing all the fish, shark and squirmy sea creatures, kids can take a walk out on the boardwalk and see local wildlife up close.

For the outdoor lovers, you can visit Bellingrath Gardens. Throughout the year, this 65 acre Garden Estate is in full bloom with camellias in the winter, azaleas in the spring, roses in the summer, and chrysanthemums in autumn. Kids will love the Oriental Garden where they can walk over a Koi pond on stepping stones to visit the Japanese arbor. There’s also a Butterfly Garden, a Fountain Garden and one of the largest Rose Gardens in the Southeast. After perusing the gardens take a cruise with your family up and down the Fowl River. You and your kids will be served a 3 course dinner and enjoy the beautiful wildlife that lives along the waterway.

So there you have it! Some Spring Break Travel picks that are sure to be a hit with your whole family, whether it’s for a day or a couple of nights.

Check back tomorrow for 2 very special giveaways we have to 2 of the places listed above! A great chance to get your Spring Break off on the right foot!

Birmingham Events Calendar: February 20th – 27th

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We hope you all have been out enjoying these awesome weather days! It’s a long weekend for some with Presidents day on Monday, if you have the chance to take in some of the city, you should. Challenge yourself to get out and visit a new park or landmark you’ve never been to.

Stop by the Zoo on Monday to vote for the Zoo President, pick a story time or check out Lowe’s on Saturday to kick off the NASCAR season by making a #48 Pull Back Race Car.

Whatever you decide to do this week, enjoy it! There just aren’t enough of these perfect days! Have a great week everyone!

It’s Not Our Fault if Your Kids are Bored!

Sunday February 20th:

Celebrate the Chinese New Year– Birmingham Museum of Art
Celebrate the Chinese New Year by creating a unique piece of Chinese art!
1:00pm – 3:00pm

Scholastic Chess Club at Books-A-Million Brookwood Village
In our upstairs Kids Nook.  Beginners are welcome, lessons
available, K-12, other mind sport activities are available such as
checkers and GO.  Free to attend!
2PM – 5PM

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Monday February 21st:

Presidents Day!

If you’re out of school today, head over to the Birmingham Zoo – it’s the last day to vote for Zoo President. Ballot boxes will be available in the Membership Office and in the ZooEd Classroom for visitors to vote for their favorite animal candidate. Each animal area will nominate a president and vice-president to be on the ballot. The winners will be announced February 22nd.

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Tuesday February 22nd:

MOPS Meeting – Riverchase United Methodist
“Chocolate Tasting” at the Mothers Of Preschoolers (MOPS) for Expecting
Mothers thru to Mothers with preschoolers at 6:30-8:30 pm at Riverchase Community
Church.  RSVP child care with Lynn 664-4531.  http://riverchase.cc/mops.php

Together Time – Emmet O’Neal Library
Action-packed storytime The Letter “T”
All ages. 9:30 a.m. or 10:30 a.m.

Storytime – Homewood Library
Join us for the fun of it!  All ages welcome.
10:30am

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Wednesday February 23rd:

Storytime Science – McWane
Don’t miss this incredible opportunity for your early learner to experience science through literature. Enjoy an enriching story coupled with an intriguing science concept that is sure to spark the curiosity of your child.
COST: Included in cost of admission to the museum, FREE for members
10:30am

123 Play With Me – Avondale Library
Avondale is providing a special time and place for you to come to the library and spend one-on-one time playing with your child. We will have toys, books, and art activities just for you and your child. A special guest will join us each week to answer some of your parenting questions. Don’t delay, call and register you and your child today.
10am

Wonderful Wednesday Storytime – Barnes and Noble Summit
Today we’ll read a very funny book about a very bad cat, Bad Kitty by Nick Bruel. Join us for a romp through the ABCs with Kitty and the foods she loves and hates. Fun feline activities to follow.
11:oo am

Family Story Time with Mr Mac – North Shelby Library
Storyteller Extraordinaire – Come join Mr Mac and his musical storytime complete with puppets! All Ages, no registration required.
10:45am

Storytime – Homewood Library
Join us for the fun of it!  All ages welcome.
10:30am

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Thursday February 24th:

SNAP – Emmet O’Neal Library
Mardi Gras Costume Party
It’s a Fat Tuesday celebration! Throw on a costume and make your way to a Mardi Gras ball. No registration required.
Grades 3 -6
3:30pm – 4:30pm

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Friday February 25th:

Storytime with Nene – Whole Foods Market
In the Cafe. Snacks, Songs and Storyboards
10:00am

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Saturday February 26th:

Dr Seuss Storytime – All Target Stores
Who Reads, We Read!
Bring the kids to your local Target store to enjoy giveaways, coupons and hear Dr. Seuss favorites
9am – 11am

Lowe’s Build and Grow Clinic
Pull Back #48 Race Car:
You don’t want to miss this clinic! This race car includes #48 stickers and a pull back motor! Your kids will love it!
10am

Celebrate the Chinese New Year – Birmingham Museum of Art
Celebrate the Chinese New Year by creating a unique piece of Chinese art!
11:00am – 1:00pm

Super Saturday Storytime – Barnes and Noble Summit
Please come join us as we read Up and Down by Oliver Jeffers. This is the story of a boy and his penguin, best friends who become separated. After the story we’ll play Pengoloo, a Dr. Toy winner.
11:00am

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Sunday February 27th:

Celebrate the Chinese New Year– Birmingham Museum of Art
Celebrate the Chinese New Year by creating a unique piece of Chinese art!
1:00pm – 3:00pm

Scholastic Chess Club at Books-A-Million Brookwood Village
In our upstairs Kids Nook.  Beginners are welcome, lessons
available, K-12, other mind sport activities are available such as
checkers and GO.  Free to attend!
2PM – 5PM

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Local Attractions Open Daily!

McWane Science Center:

Itty Bitty Magic City –
The mini-sized Magic City – complete with buildings and factories – encourages young learners to explore new skills as they join the cities’ workforce. By dressing up in a favorite career costume and becoming a steel worker, doctor, pilot scientist or train conductor, preschoolers take one small step into the world around them. While operating cranes, turning gears, pulling pulleys, and building structures – to name just a few of the hands-on activities – children expand their understanding of themselves as they experience how objects behave and how their own actions affect the objects around them. Little explorers are free to navigate this active learning area at their own pace, allowing creativity, fun and discovery to flourish in the Itty Bitty Magic City!

NatureScope –  Explore the great outdoors from inside the museum. McWane Science Center and the Birmingham Audubon Society are partnering to create a new exhibit called NatureScope. Explore the science of the birds and the bugs in this new area! Get up close and personal with some resident creepy crawlies! Learn what role insects play in our ecosystem with the decomposition chamber. Meet large bugs including emperor scorpions, a tarantula, and even a giant African millipede!

Animalopolis at the IMAX – ANIMALOPOLIS will take you on a voyage into the magical world of animals. A bit fanciful, a bit “Seussian” perhaps, a place of good natured humor, beauty and just plain fun for kids and their parents.

Birmingham Zoo:

Lorikeet Aviary – Our Lorikeet Aviary has more birds than ever! Zoo guests can feed these exotic birds every day. You and your family will see these birds’ behavior as they eat nectar out of your hand.
Weekends 10:00 am – 4:00 pm

PELICAN FEEDING – A great way to see our pelicans in action is to witness them eating their favorite treats near the pelican boardwalk.

RHINO ENCOUNTER – Embark on an African adventure and experience one of the world’s most extraordinary animals, the Southern White Rhino. Watch from only feet away as our zookeepers engage in hands-on interaction with the animals inside their African-themed exhibit. Don’t miss this exciting encounter with one of the largest mammals on the planet!
Weekdays: 3pm – 3:30pm
Weekends: 11:30am – Noon & 3pm – 3:30 pm

GIRAFFE FEEDING – This up close and personal animal encounter is a memory you and your family will have for a lifetime.
Weekday: 11am – Noon
Weekends: 10am – 11am  & 2pm – 3pm

Vulcan Park and Museum:

Vulcan is the world’s largest cast iron statue; made of 100,000 pounds of iron and 56 feet tall, he stands at the top of Red Mountain overlooking the city of Birmingham. But, Vulcan is more than a statue. Vulcan Park and Museum features spectacular views of Birmingham, an interactive history museum that examines Vulcan and Birmingham’s story, and a beautiful public park for visitors and locals to enjoy. With an official information center that is operated by the Greater Birmingham Convention and Visitors Bureau, Vulcan Park and Museum serves as the first stop for visitors to the Birmingham area!

Railroad Park:

Railroad Park is a 19 acre green space in downtown Birmingham that celebrates the industrial and artistic heritage of our great city. Situated along 1st Avenue South, between 14th and 18th Streets, the park is a joint effort between the City of Birmingham and the Railroad Park Foundation. Hailed as “Birmingham’s Living Room,” Railroad Park provides a historically rich venue for local recreation, family activities, concerts, and cultural events, while connecting Birmingham’s downtown area with Southside and UAB’s campus.

Southern Museum of Flight:

Earn Your Wings – Bring your little pilot and soar above the clouds in our little pilots room. Kids enjoy building aircrafts, flying kites, and more.
Museum Open Tuesday – Thursday
9:30am – 4:30pm

Do you have or know of an event you would like to have added to our weekly calendar? Please email us at contact@birminghammommy.com, subject line “Events Calendar” – We would love to hear from you!

Droolicious Cuisine at BirminghamMommy.com: Shrimp Po Boys

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With Mardi Gras just around the corner we decided to give you something with a little cajun flare, just in case you can’t make it down to the bayou for the festivities!

“This is a healthier take on the traditional shrimp po’ boy, but I  promise you won’t miss that fried coating one bit! Packed with lots of flavor and the option to omit the hot sauce to make this a  family-friendly dish.  Yields 4 servings.”

Ingredients:
2 cups angel hair cabbage
2 tablespoons nonfat plain yogurt
2 tablespoons lowfat mayo
1 teaspoon Old Bay seasoning
1 pound raw shrimp, peeled and deveined
1/2 teaspoon each salt and pepper
1 teaspoon chili powder
1 teaspoon paprika
4 whole-wheat sub rolls
1 tomato sliced
1 red onion, thinly sliced
Texas Pete hot sauce

1)  In a large bowl mix together yogurt, mayo, and Old Bay.  Add cabbage and toss to coat.  Refrigerate.
2) Preheat skillet over medium-high heat.  Toss shrimp with oil, salt, pepper, chili powder, and paprika.  Add to skillet and cook until done about 3-4 minutes.
3) Toast rolls.  Divide shrimp among 4 sandwiches.  Top with slaw, red onion, and tomatoes.  Add some generous dashes of hot sauce.

Like this? You can find many more droolicious recipes over at her site, “2 Little Chicks”

BigBham Deal: Private Swim Lessons from Swimwell

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$100 for 4 Private Swimming Lessons from Swimwell (a $200 value). Or Purchase Two for a total of 8 Lessons!

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About This Deal:

With this great deal, you can get 4 private swimming lessons for only $100 (a $200 value); or you may purchase 2 deals for an additional 4 lessons at this same great price!

With the spring-time weather introducing a summer of fun-in-the-sun activities, it is the perfect time to sign up for private swimming lessons from the one-of-a-kind Swimwell, LLC. It is their vision that any person who wants to learn how to swim can do so and enjoy it! This is a program that puts the FUN in the FUNdamentals. Their motto is to replace the fear of swimming with skill and knowledge.

The Swimwell LLC Aquatic School will guide the student into a world of knowledge and understanding of their bodies and how it interacts in an aquatic environment. Swimwell will eliminate all myths and most fears that hinder the student from achieving.

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Working Mommy Madness – Hormone Hell

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By: Harmony Hobbs

I wish to discuss the power of the female hormone. Specifically, the power that it has over ME.

You see … I’m pregnant. But before that, I had PMS.

Generally speaking, I have the kind of PMS that takes control of my life for 1-2 days. I’m like a woman possessed. One minute I’m driving down the road, screaming at everyone who gets in my way, and the next I’m parked at Sonic with a Reese Peanut Butter Cup Sonic Blast with extra chocolate syrup in my hand. I don’t know how it happens. I don’t recall making the decision to stop, or even order.

Being pregnant makes me feel like I have PMS all the time. I knew it would be like this, because this is my second time around the block, but I had forgotten just how all-consuming it can be. It’s beyond my control. I do what I can … but in the end, “Crazy Bitch,” as I call this version of myself, is going to win. The part that I find the most depressing is the fact that I am not able to turn to wine. So I turn to food, which is currently one of the few vices I have left.

I feel most sorry for my husband and child, because they (with the exception of my mother) bear the brunt of my irrational behavior. My poor husband does the best that he can, but nothing he does is ever right, and there is really nothing he can do to make me happy except feed me and lie to me. Or go to the store for more eggs, so I can make the giant omelet I’ve been thinking about all day.

Please  note that when I say he can make me happy by lying to me, I mean telling me white lies like “Your skin is glowing,” “You’re not crazy,” or “OF COURSE you’re fun to be around.” REAL lies are not okay. And, in fact, if he made the grave mistake of telling me a real lie, I am quite sure he would be the sorriest man alive.

Recently he tried to get romantic, and chose the wrong moment to pick at a pimple on my back. He literally paused and picked at it. I screeched at him in horror. He said he was just trying to pop it. I said good night.

That was the last opportunity he had for quite some time to get any of THIS back-acned action.

My son is two, and whatever shreds of patience I had before getting pregnant with my second child have been replaced with a wacko tendency to yell.  A lot. There’s really nothing more I can say here without making myself sound like a terrible mother. Hopefully we’re all friends here and you can understand where I’m coming from without passing judgment, or wondering why on earth I am procreating again. I’m sure once I give birth I’ll return to my normal, patient self and all will be right again. Right?

RIGHT?!

All of this makes me wonder, is there ever a time when we are free from this vicious cycle of bad behavior? There’s PMS which starts at what – 13? Then pregnancy … then the mystery that is menopause, which seems like it might be the worst of all. And then, are you free? Is it over? Are you sweet and kind all the time, or at the very least, PREDICTABLE?

My husband says that women are complicated and difficult to figure out. I don’t disagree. I hardly understand my own behavior, and currently feel like I’m a slave to it. I’m mad, I’m really mad, I’m sad, I cry, I become kind of happy, and then it starts all over again. All I have to hold onto is my latest craving.


Harmony blew into Birmingham after Hurricane Katrina and is a self-proclaimed “never home maker” striving for a balance between her career and family life. Visit her blog Working Mommy Madness to read more!

Healthy Spinach Snack for Kids and us too!

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This is a recipe from the Junior League of Birmingham’s Magic Cookbook.  I recently tried it and it is delicious and very kid-friendly!  This would be a great appetizer to bring to a party and even great for a playdate treat!

Spinach Balls
10 oz pkg frozen spinach
1 1/2 cups Pepperidge Farm Herb Stuffing Mix
1/2 cup finely chopped onion (I omit this to make it kid-friendly)
3 eggs, beaten
1/2 stick butter, melted
1/4 cup Parmesan cheese
1/2 tsp pepper
3/4 tsp garlic salt

Preheat oven to 325 degrees.
Cook spinach and drain well, squeezing out all liquid.
Add all other ingredients and mix well.
Form into small balls and place on lightly greased cookie sheet.
Bake 15 minutes, do not overcook.
(May be prepared ahead and frozen before baking.)

My Funny Valentine

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Valentine’s Cards aren’t always romantic and gooey. Some are funny, silly, maybe even a little naughty. We’ve complied a list of a few un-traditional cards that fit more into one of those “out of the box”categories than your normal sweet Valentine.

His knees say he has a big surprise, I’m thinking he can keep his big ole’ creepy surprise!





Bloop!

We would make a happy “pear.” Really? This pear does not look so happy to me!

So, you’re not a fan of this holiday, that’s cool.

Yeah….. I’m kind of thinking “Or Not”

Birmingham Events Calendar: February 13th – February 20th

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It looks like another taste of spring is on tap for this week. I have to say I like it way better than the frigid weather we’ve been having! McWane Science Center is offering a Science storytime now on Wednesdays, what a great bonus if you’re going to be there already!

You can catch a Valentine Movie at Homewood library on Monday or choose from many other activities we have listed from around town.

Wrapping up the week will be Big Machines Day at McWane, sure to be a great way to spend your Saturday with the family!

Get out and enjoy the weather this week and Happy Valentines Day Everyone!

It’s Not Our Fault if Your Kids are Bored!

Sunday February 13th:

Little Naturalists Series – Ruffner Mountain Nature Center
Do you have fond memories of playing in the woods and want to share that wonder with your children? Or, if you missed out on nature experiences when you were young, now is your chance to experience the joy. Ruffner Mountain Nature Center provides a safe haven for youthful exploration for kids and adults alike. Each month, we will focus on a different topic, sparking interest and inspiring curiosity. Bring your budding naturalist to the mountain and let’s explore!
•$3/ $2 (member) •All children must be accompanied by an adult. •Suited for K – 2nd grade. •Drop-ins welcome.
2pm

O’Reilly World of Wheels
Hey Kids! Come and meet SpongeBob SquarePants SpongeBob will be meeting his fans and taking Souvenir Photos. All weekend.
(Due to the nature of the costume, Sponge Bob must take frequent short breaks)

The First 200 kids through the door EACH DAY receive a FREE Hot Wheels Race your car for FREE on the Hot Wheels Drag Track sponsored by the Alabama Hot Wheels Club. ALL WEEKEND!

Don’t miss the most exciting Extreme Bike team around,  “On the Edge” Bike Stunt Team -an annual favorite.  ”On the Edge” will perform their thrilling bicycle and motorcycle stunts all weekend.
Noon – 7pm – Buy Tickets

Celebrate the Chinese New Year– Birmingham Museum of Art
Celebrate the Chinese New Year by creating a unique piece of Chinese art!
1:00pm – 3:00pm

Scholastic Chess Club at Books-A-Million Brookwood Village
In our upstairs Kids Nook.  Beginners are welcome, lessons
available, K-12, other mind sport activities are available such as
checkers and GO.  Free to attend!
2PM – 5PM

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Monday January 14th:

Happy Valentines Day!

Monday Movie – Homewood Library
The Children’s Department is showcasing a special Valentine’s Day movie for Monday Movie!
Juice and Popcorn will be served!
3:30pm

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Tuesday February 15th:

Education Celebration – Barnes and Noble Summit
Join us for a fun-filled hour of hands-on learning featuring our brand-new Barnes & Noble @ School section with educational toys and games.
11:30am

Together Time – Emmet O’Neal Library
Action-packed storytime The Letter “S”
All ages. 9:30 a.m. or 10:30 a.m.

Storytime – Homewood Library
Join us for the fun of it!  All ages welcome.
10:30am

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Wednesday February 16th:

Storytime Science – McWane
Don’t miss this incredible opportunity for your early learner to experience science through literature. Enjoy an enriching story coupled with an intriguing science concept that is sure to spark the curiosity of your child.
COST: Included in cost of admission to the museum, FREE for members
10:30am

123 Play With Me – Avondale Library
Avondale is providing a special time and place for you to come to the library and spend one-on-one time playing with your child. We will have toys, books, and art activities just for you and your child. A special guest will join us each week to answer some of your parenting questions. Don’t delay, call and register you and your child today.
10am

Wonderful Wednesday Storytime – Barnes and Noble Summit
Read a very silly book called Children Make Terrible Pets by Peter Brown. Lucy the bear finds a little boy and wants to know if she can keep it as a pet. After the story, we’ll play Bear Hugs, a super-fun matching game.
11:oo am

Family Story Time with Mr Mac – North Shelby Library
Storyteller Extraordinaire – Come join Mr Mac and his musical storytime complete with puppets! All Ages, no registration required.
10:45am

Storytime – Homewood Library
Join us for the fun of it!  All ages welcome.
10:30am

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Thursday February 17th:

SNAP – Emmet O’Neal Library
Mardi Gras Masks
Grades 3 -6
3:30pm – 5:10pm

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Friday February 18th:

Storytime with Nene – Whole Foods Market
In the Cafe. Snacks, Songs and Storyboards
10:00am

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Saturday February 19th:

Big Machines Day – McWane Science Center
Get your motors running and head over to McWane Science Center for a truckload of fun. Spend a constructive day getting up close and personal with some big machines including backhoes, excavators, dump trucks, loaders, dozers and cranes! Learn the science of simple machines and participate in fun building programs throughout the day! Machines provided by CraneWorks.
COST: Included in cost of admission to the museum, FREE for members
10am -4pm

Celebrate the Chinese New Year – Birmingham Museum of Art
Celebrate the Chinese New Year by creating a unique piece of Chinese art!
11:00am – 1:00pm

Super Saturday Storytime – Barnes and Noble Summit
Join us today as we read The Tortoise or the Hare by Nobel Prize winner Toni Morrison and her son Slade Morrison. Fun activities to follow.
11:00am

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Sunday February 20th:

Celebrate the Chinese New Year– Birmingham Museum of Art
Celebrate the Chinese New Year by creating a unique piece of Chinese art!
1:00pm – 3:00pm

Scholastic Chess Club at Books-A-Million Brookwood Village
In our upstairs Kids Nook.  Beginners are welcome, lessons
available, K-12, other mind sport activities are available such as
checkers and GO.  Free to attend!
2PM – 5PM

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Local Attractions Open Daily!

McWane Science Center:

Itty Bitty Magic City –
The mini-sized Magic City – complete with buildings and factories – encourages young learners to explore new skills as they join the cities’ workforce. By dressing up in a favorite career costume and becoming a steel worker, doctor, pilot scientist or train conductor, preschoolers take one small step into the world around them. While operating cranes, turning gears, pulling pulleys, and building structures – to name just a few of the hands-on activities – children expand their understanding of themselves as they experience how objects behave and how their own actions affect the objects around them. Little explorers are free to navigate this active learning area at their own pace, allowing creativity, fun and discovery to flourish in the Itty Bitty Magic City!

NatureScope –  Explore the great outdoors from inside the museum. McWane Science Center and the Birmingham Audubon Society are partnering to create a new exhibit called NatureScope. Explore the science of the birds and the bugs in this new area! Get up close and personal with some resident creepy crawlies! Learn what role insects play in our ecosystem with the decomposition chamber. Meet large bugs including emperor scorpions, a tarantula, and even a giant African millipede!

Animalopolis at the IMAX – ANIMALOPOLIS will take you on a voyage into the magical world of animals. A bit fanciful, a bit “Seussian” perhaps, a place of good natured humor, beauty and just plain fun for kids and their parents.

Birmingham Zoo:

Lorikeet Aviary – Our Lorikeet Aviary has more birds than ever! Zoo guests can feed these exotic birds every day. You and your family will see these birds’ behavior as they eat nectar out of your hand.
Weekends 10:00 am – 4:00 pm

PELICAN FEEDING – A great way to see our pelicans in action is to witness them eating their favorite treats near the pelican boardwalk.

RHINO ENCOUNTER – Embark on an African adventure and experience one of the world’s most extraordinary animals, the Southern White Rhino. Watch from only feet away as our zookeepers engage in hands-on interaction with the animals inside their African-themed exhibit. Don’t miss this exciting encounter with one of the largest mammals on the planet!
Weekdays: 3pm – 3:30pm
Weekends: 11:30am – Noon & 3pm – 3:30 pm

GIRAFFE FEEDING – This up close and personal animal encounter is a memory you and your family will have for a lifetime.
Weekday: 11am – Noon
Weekends: 10am – 11am  & 2pm – 3pm

Vulcan Park and Museum:

Vulcan is the world’s largest cast iron statue; made of 100,000 pounds of iron and 56 feet tall, he stands at the top of Red Mountain overlooking the city of Birmingham. But, Vulcan is more than a statue. Vulcan Park and Museum features spectacular views of Birmingham, an interactive history museum that examines Vulcan and Birmingham’s story, and a beautiful public park for visitors and locals to enjoy. With an official information center that is operated by the Greater Birmingham Convention and Visitors Bureau, Vulcan Park and Museum serves as the first stop for visitors to the Birmingham area!

Railroad Park:

Railroad Park is a 19 acre green space in downtown Birmingham that celebrates the industrial and artistic heritage of our great city. Situated along 1st Avenue South, between 14th and 18th Streets, the park is a joint effort between the City of Birmingham and the Railroad Park Foundation. Hailed as “Birmingham’s Living Room,” Railroad Park provides a historically rich venue for local recreation, family activities, concerts, and cultural events, while connecting Birmingham’s downtown area with Southside and UAB’s campus.

Southern Museum of Flight:

Earn Your Wings – Bring your little pilot and soar above the clouds in our little pilots room. Kids enjoy building aircrafts, flying kites, and more.
Museum Open Tuesday – Thursday
9:30am – 4:30pm

Do you have or know of an event you would like to have added to our weekly calendar? Please email us at contact@birminghammommy.com, subject line “Events Calendar” – We would love to hear from you!

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