Fun Ways to Countdown to School Starting

Whether you like it or not.. School is just around the corner! Many moms and kids countdown the days until summer begins. Why not do the same thing for school starting? It will help teach your children not to dread their responsibility, but rather prepare to tackle it and enjoy it. This is specifically good to do for new kindergarteners who may have the jitters. Only excitement can trump nervousness!!

Here’s a few ideas we thought of, found on pinterest, or heard about from friends:

1. Family calendar- as simple as X’ing off each day until school starts

2. Paper Chain Cut construction paper and glue it into rings. If there are 20 days left, make 2o rings. Each day the kids take one ring off.

3. School “Advent” Calendar- This is what we’re doing at my house. Each day, the kids mark a day off and are given their small treat. Some days it is a piece of candy, some days it is new pencils or crayons. This is a great way to “gift” them new school supplies.

4. Book countdown- Gather books that are themed about school. Make a stack- one book for each day left. Read one book per night, reducing the stack. This would be especially helpful for little ones who may be nervous about the first day.

5. For the tech-savvy crowd, use an online countdown tool like this one. Or find a fun app since our kids have our phones more than us… ๐Ÿ™‚

What ways do you prepare for the first day of school?

Birmingham Events Calendar: July 13th – July 20th

Itโ€™s Not Our Fault if Your Kids are Bored!

Looking for some fun summertime events happening in Birmingham? We’ve got you covered! From Library Fun, to the Birmingham Barons there is plenty to keep you and your family busy this week! Don’t forget to check out the new throwback Thursday Kids Club at the Alabama Theatre! This week’s movie is Return to Witch Mountain. It’s a great time to take the little ones down to enjoy a show at this historic Birmingham Landmark!

Have a Great Week.

Sunday July 13th:

Summer Film Series: To Kill a Mockingbird โ€“ Alabama Theatre
Atticus Finch, a lawyer in the Depression-era South, defends a black man against an undeserved rape charge, and his kids against prejudice. 129 min. NR.
There will be a sing-along and Mighty Wurlitzer performance before each film.
Tickets are $8 and will be available at the door or in advance through Ticketmaster.
2pm โ€“ 4pm

Music at the Zoo – Birmingham Zoo
Enjoy your Sundayย afternoon at the Zoo by listening to live music from 2:00 – 4:00pm in front of the Aviary next to the Lorikeet exhibit! Before the live music begins, be sure to catch a Red Diamond Sea Lion Splash Show, cool off in the Splash Pads, visit the new rescued American black bear cubs and much more!

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Monday July 14th:

Story Laboratory: Sound – Hoover Public Library
Summer story time! Perfect for children under the age of four years.
9:30 and 10:30

Cool Chemistry We Can Eatโ€“ Homewood Public Library
Ever been curious about the science behind some delicious treats? Homewood Public Library has the answer! Registration required! Please call (205) 332-6619 to register! Ages 6-12 welcome.
10:30

Monday Movie – Homewood Public Library
Join your family and friends at the Homewood Public Library for an evening movie and snack!
6:15pm

Tot Time with Mrs. Eve. How Does the Garden Growโ€“ Avondale Library
Join us as we share stories, songs, and experiments to engage the backyard scientist in all of us! Stories, songs, and crafts geared for 2 to 4 year olds with a caregiver.ย  24-hour advance registration required.
10:30am

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Tuesday July 15th:

Alice In Wonderland – Emmet O’Neal Library
Hampstead Stage brings a live production of Alice in Wonderland. All ages. No registration required.
10:30am

Fizz Boom Read Explosive Fun – Avondale Library
For all readers who have read many, many books this summer and earned a summer reading certificate, it’s time to celebrate. Join us for an explosive fun night of carnival games, prizes, and more!ย 24-hour advanced notice of attendance required.
6pm

The Magic of Larry Moore – North Avondale Library
First you see it, now you donโ€™t. Join Larry Moore for a program of senseless magic where the impossible becomes possible and the unbelievableโ€”it will blow your mind!
1pm

Ronald McDonald, A Magic Show – Homewood Public Library
Fun and laughs with Ronald McDonald and friends at Homewood Public Library!
10:30am

Bubblemania Comedy… With a Drip – Hoover Public Library
An eye-popping, belly-laughing, fun-filled extravaganza in The Library Theatre! This unique program is loaded with visual comedy, quick wit, big band swing music and the untamed, often unbelievable qualities and beauty of spherical liquids.
10:30am, 2pm and 6:30pm

Family Tours, What does a Warrior Wear โ€“ Birmingham Museum of Art
FREE // Meet in the Main Lobby
Join the Museum educators to explore the galleries in a fun, interactive experience! Discover Bart the Art Batโ€™s favorite artworks during these FREE, drop-in tours. After your tour, visit Bartโ€™s ArtVenture to make an art project inspired by what you saw. What will you discover?

What Does a Warrior Wear
10:30

Storytime โ€“ Barnes and Noble Summit
Hey Scooby! We love Scooby-Doo and the whole gang. Come hear a story and have a snack – Barnes & Noble style!
11am

Storytime for All Ages โ€“ Homewood Public Library
Story Time
10:30am

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Wednesday July 16th:

Birmingham Barons – Regions Field
vs. Mississippi Braves
7:05pm

Bubblemania Comedy… With a Drip – Hoover Public Library
An eye-popping, belly-laughing, fun-filled extravaganza in The Library Theatre! This unique program is loaded with visual comedy, quick wit, big band swing music and the untamed, often unbelievable qualities and beauty of spherical liquids.
10:30 and 2pm

The Fizz Boom Zap Wow Science Show – Springville Road Library
Kids will be mesmerized with this exciting and educational exploration of science. They will learn about atoms, molecules, and matter. The show is full of experiments to impress and everyone is guaranteed to have a hair-raising good time. This program is truly booming with explosions, crazy chemistry, and volts and jolts. It will be a blast!
10am

Family Story Time with Mr Mac โ€“ North Shelby Library
Storyteller Extraordinaire โ€“ Come join Mr Mac and his musical storytime complete with puppets! All Ages, no registration required.
10:45am

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Thursday July 17th:

Throwback Thursday Kids Club – Alabama Theatre
Return to Witch Mountain
Tickets are $2 for kids and $5 for adults. Kids MUST be accompanied by an adult.
Doors open at 9 am to start activities, and the movie begins at 10.

Birmingham Barons – Regions Field
vs. Mississippi Braves
7:05pm

Bubblemania Comedy… With a Drip – Hoover Public Library
An eye-popping, belly-laughing, fun-filled extravaganza in The Library Theatre! This unique program is loaded with visual comedy, quick wit, big band swing music and the untamed, often unbelievable qualities and beauty of spherical liquids.
10:30 and 2pm

Walkabout Puppets, A Very Funny Puppet Show – Homewood Public Library
Come and watch a very funny puppet show at Homewood Public Library!
6:15pm

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Friday July 18th:

Birmingham Barons – Regions Field
vs. Mississippi Braves
7:05pm

Water and Melon Day – Homewood Public Library
Come play in the water with friends and family at Homewood Public Library! There will be cold watermelon AND a Homewood fire truck here for all the fun!
10:30am

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Saturday July 19th

Birmingham Barons – Regions Field
vs. Mississippi Braves
6:30pm

Bart’s Books – Birmingham Museum of Art
Japanese Folk Stories
Bartโ€™s Books is a storytelling program for children ages 4-7. Bart selects a new book and related work of art each month that he thinks kids will enjoy.
11am

Ice Cream Social – Whole Foods
Drop in for a sampling of various ice creams: traditional, organic, dairy-free, and gluten-free ice creams served along with a fun toppings bar. As with everything in our store, all items are free of artificial flavors, colors, preservatives, sweeteners & high-fructos corn syrup.
11am – 2pm

Cartoon and Cereal – Homewood Public Library
Dry cereal and Saturday morning cartoons at Homewood Public Library!
(Cereal only available until 10:45 AM)
10am – Noon

Family Tours, What does a Warrior Wear โ€“ Birmingham Museum of Art
FREE // Meet in the Main Lobby
Join the Museum educators to explore the galleries in a fun, interactive experience! Discover Bart the Art Batโ€™s favorite artworks during these FREE, drop-in tours. After your tour, visit Bartโ€™s ArtVenture to make an art project inspired by what you saw. What will you discover?

What Does a Warrior Wear
10:30

Family Storytime โ€“ Emmet Oโ€™Neal Library
Bring the entire family and join Mr. Mac for stories and music each Saturday morning.
10:30 a.m.

Storytime โ€“ Barnes and Noble Summit
Let’s have some LEGO fun! We’ll read Catch That Crook! (a LEGO City story) and then pull out the LEGO bricks so you can create your own story. Let your imagination go!
11am

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Sunday July 20th:

Birmingham Barons – Regions Field
vs. Mississippi Braves
3:00pm

National Ice Cream Day – Homewood Public Library
Summer readers, come by for a free scoop of ice cream!
2:30pm

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Local Attractions Open Daily!

McWane Science Center:

IMAX
McWane Science Centerโ€™s IMAXยฎ Dome Theater puts you in the center of the action by projecting breathtaking quality images onto the 5-story-tall dome screen and delivering intense surround sound through almost 3 tons of speakers and subwoofers.
Now Showing: Tornado Alley, Great White Shark, To the Arctic, Island of Lemurs: Madagascar

Birmingham Zoo:

Lorikeet Aviary โ€“ Our Lorikeet Aviary has more birds than ever! Zoo guests can feed these exotic birds every day. You and your family will see these birdsโ€™ behavior as they eat nectar out of your hand.
Weekends 10:00 am โ€“ 4:00 pm

PELICAN FEEDING – A great way to see our pelicans in action is to witness them eating their favorite treats near the pelican boardwalk.

RHINO ENCOUNTER โ€“ Embark on an African adventure and experience one of the worldโ€™s most extraordinary animals, the Southern White Rhino. Watch from only feet away as our zookeepers engage in hands-on interaction with the animals inside their African-themed exhibit. Donโ€™t miss this exciting encounter with one of the largest mammals on the planet!
Weekdays: 3pm โ€“ 3:30pm
Weekends: 11:30am โ€“ Noon & 3pm โ€“ 3:30 pm

GIRAFFE FEEDING โ€“ This up close and personal animal encounter is a memory you and your family will have for a lifetime.
Weekday: 11am โ€“ Noon
Weekends: 10am โ€“ 11amย  & 2pm โ€“ 3pm

Vulcan Park and Museum:

Vulcan is the worldโ€™s largest cast iron statue; made of 100,000 pounds of iron and 56 feet tall, he stands at the top of Red Mountain overlooking the city of Birmingham. But, Vulcan is more than a statue. Vulcan Park and Museum features spectacular views of Birmingham, an interactive history museum that examines Vulcan and Birminghamโ€™s story, and a beautiful public park for visitors and locals to enjoy. With an official information center that is operated by the Greater Birmingham Convention and Visitors Bureau, Vulcan Park and Museum serves as the first stop for visitors to the Birmingham area!

Railroad Park:

Railroad Park is a 19 acre green space in downtown Birmingham that celebrates the industrial and artistic heritage of our great city. Situated along 1st Avenue South, between 14th and 18th Streets, the park is a joint effort between the City of Birmingham and the Railroad Park Foundation. Hailed as โ€œBirminghamโ€™s Living Room,โ€ Railroad Park provides a historically rich venue for local recreation, family activities, concerts, and cultural events, while connecting Birminghamโ€™s downtown area with Southside and UABโ€™s campus.

Southern Museum of Flight:

Earn Your Wings โ€“ Bring your little pilot and soar above the clouds in our little pilots room. Kids enjoy building aircrafts, flying kites, and more.
Museum Open Tuesday โ€“ Thursday
9:30am โ€“ 4:30pm

Do you have or know of an event you would like to have added to our weekly calendar? Please email us at contact@birminghammommy.com, subject line โ€œEvents Calendarโ€ โ€“ We would love to hear from you!

** All information listed on our calendar is subject to change without notice to us or youโ€ฆ We do our best to keep the information accurate and will always update as soon as we learn that something has changed. Itโ€™s always best to double check with the event via their website or a quick call,ย  especially when weather can impact the event.

52 New Things, 2014. Week 27

What’s new with you? Here’s what we tried this week!

 

Angie-
Jamberry is what’s new with me this week. You may have seen these all over Facebook now and someone you know may already be hosting a little Facebook Party. A friend reached out to me to see if I wanted to try these and being that I’m always looking for new things, I said I would give it a shot although after looking at what was involved I was a little intimidated and unsure as to whether I would actually follow through on this or not. She brought some samples for me and some little Jamberry Juniors for my girls and I have to say they were freaking adorable. I was still intimidated by the process and let them sit on my counter and stare at me for a week before I decided to just go for it. I dove in following the instructions on the package and have to say it was WAY easier than I thought it was going to be. Even on the little ones. I got faster the more I did and I have to say they looked pretty good. Jamberry claims that fingers last about 2 weeks and toes up to 6. I was skeptical on the fingers. Especially with as much time as we spend in the pool and I have to say at 2 1/2 weeks, my oldest who’s a swimmer still had all of hers and the little one had only lost maybe 2 but she picked at hers more. At 3 weeks my swimmer has only lost 2 and my toes still look fabulous. If you‘re looking for a little pick me up for your next mani/pedi, check these out. We had a lot of fun with them and my girls were picking out all kids of new ones they want for the next go round. Haven’t heard of these.. Check out this Facebook Page and let her know that BirminghamMommy sent you!

(apologies for the foot picture.. I hate feet pictures but you needed to see the cuteness of the jams… )

 

Kristen –
My new thing was Art on the Rocks at Birmingham Museum of Art. Loud but lots of fun!

Shirley –
My new thing is the lemonade from Wendy’s. Much better than the lemonade from Chick-Fil-A… In my humble opinion.

We would love to hear what you’ve done that is new or if you have a suggestion for us to give something a try, let us know and we’ll check it out!

 

Product Review: Oma+ Movement Monitor from Levana

Reviewed By: Amy Richardson

As a new parent, every little grunt, cry and sniffle coming from my babyโ€™s nursery at night triggers me to go check on her to make sure sheโ€™s OK. But itโ€™s those nights when I realize sheโ€™s gone a few hours without making a peep that really get me up and crib side in a hurry. Thereโ€™s nothing more important than peace of mind when it comes to your childโ€™s safety in the next room, and thatโ€™s when a good baby monitor can be your best friend.

For those who love high-tech baby gadgets or want the added security of the most advanced baby monitor, then the Oma+ movement monitor from Levana is a great choice. Itโ€™s a cordless and battery-powered device that clips directly on your babyโ€™s diaper so it can easily be used anywhere your baby sleeps. I used it in addition to an audio monitor in my babyโ€™s nursery.

The Oma+ houses a movement sensor that rests on your babyโ€™s tummy, sensing her tiniest movements. After 15 seconds of complete stillness, the sensor will gently vibrate to help encourage the return of regular movement and will beep loudly to alert you if no movement is detected for more than 20 seconds. In other words, if your baby stops breathing, the Oma+ has the very important job of letting you know!

I had to wait a couple of weeks until my daughterโ€™s umbilical cord fell off to use the device since it clips to the top-middle part of the diaper with the soft, rubbery sensor piece right beneath the belly button. Although it seemed a bit obstructive on such a little body, my daughter didnโ€™t seem to mind it. With a newborn, however, the device became a little cumbersome during all those middle-of-the-night diaper changes and feedings. As a bleary-eyed, new parent, you have to make sure the device is fitting squarely on the diaper and making contact with the tummy for it to work properly. Iโ€™d recommend using it when your baby is a little older and sleeping longer at night and sleeping in her own cribโ€”the motion of a swing, car seat or stroller negates the functionality of the device, according to the manufacturer.

While nothing can replace your own eyes and ears during the night, an advanced movement monitor like the Oma+ can help ease your fears a little and keep you from constantly checking in on a soundly sleeping baby, letting you get a little more rest during those first crazy months of parenthood.

To learn more about this Monitor or other items by Levana, visit their site.

 

About Amy:

A Birmingham native, Amy Whitfield Richardson, is a proud new Mommy to a beautiful baby girl. She credits all of her knowledge on parenting to BirminghamMommy.com ๐Ÿ™‚

 


 

 

Event of the Week! Meet Scooby and Shaggy!

Like, Yikes! It’s a chance to meet Scooby and Shaggy at the McWane Science Center!!

It’s time to solve the case of the missing mummy and his necklace.
Come for the fun, stay for the Scooby Snacks and be a junior detective to help Mystery Inc. solve this case.

  • Participate in hands-on science activities and help the gang solve the mystery
  • Have a blast in the Scooby Doo photo booth
  • Enjoy refreshments, including some delicious Scooby Snacks
  • Experience the Animation exhibit on Level 3
  • Get a special prize for solving the crime

Bring your camera to capture all your adventures.

Advance reservations required. Call 714-8414.

JULY 11 — 6:30 PM – 8:30 PM

ADULTS: $15/KIDS: $12

MEMBERS: ADULTS: $12/KIDS: $10

CLICK HERE TO PURCHASE TICKETS

Compliments of Bright House Networks Business Solutions.

Cartoon Network & ยฉ 2014 Cartoon Network and/or Hanna-Barbera and/or Warner Bros. All Rights Reserved.

 

Parenting with a PhD: Appropriate Complaints

Teach Your Kids to Complain!

By: Kristen Berthiaume

The punch line for this title is, of course, that your kids already know how to complain. They practice. All. Of. The. (Expletive deleted). Time. But, complaining appropriately is actually a skill that may not come naturally and a really important one to master. Without the ability to complain, how would you let your boss know if a co-worker is creating a hostile environment? How would you tell your spouse that he has to cool it with the whistling? Even though Iโ€™m sure youโ€™re a lovely person, you complain multiple times every day. Or, at least I do. But, thereโ€™s a huge difference in those whiny (them), nagging (us) complaints that are usually answered with annoyance or irritated silence and appropriate complaints that are likely to get actual results.

There are many reasons a kid may need to complain (and probably more where they need to just hush): her teacher added points wrong on a test, dinner is too cold to eat, or her shoes donโ€™t fit. By helping your child complain about situations like these, youโ€™re teaching her that she can speak up for herself, that itโ€™s O.K. (and often very helpful) to address problems sheโ€™s having with others head-on, and that she is worth being treated with respect. These will be invaluable lessons for her โ€“ especially once she hits adulthood! Help your child learn to identify situations that do warrant a complaint by asking herself: Is this a regular or major problem for me or someone else? Have I tried to fix the problem on my own but canโ€™t? Is this a situation that could turn dangerous? Once your child has determined that a complaint will be necessary, have her brainstorm about the best way to address the problem with someone. When the other person is busy or available? (Answer: available!) When everyone is calm or upset? (Answer: calm!) In private or in public? (Answer: private!).

Although many parents feel that children should get what they get (and donโ€™t throw a fit), there are situations where complaining is truly crucial and there could be significant consequences of keeping quiet. If we teach our kids to blindly follow authority, even when something doesnโ€™t feel right, we put them and others at risk for mistreatment and abuse. There may be serious issues your child needs to complain about some day โ€“ a kid bullying him, a friend cutting herself, violence in a relationship, or an adult asking to see private body parts. We want to make it really clear to our kids that they must speak up if something isnโ€™t right or if someone is in danger, and that they wonโ€™t get in trouble for it. From the day-to-day situations that your child finds frustrating to the major problems that need to be addressed quickly and by a trusted adult, sometimes complaining is the best decision.

Try the โ€œ3 Fsโ€ formula for teaching your child the right way to complain: FACT+ FEELING + FAIR REQUEST.

The FACT is what has happened or is happening that your child is unhappy or concerned about. For example, โ€œMom, Jake keeps changing the channel when Iโ€™m trying to watch something…โ€ Notice the total absence of words like, โ€œstupid,โ€ โ€œjerk,โ€ and โ€œannoyingโ€ in this statement. The FEELING is self-explanatory: โ€œ…and I feel really frustrated.โ€ Itโ€™s important to point out that the other personโ€™s behavior isnโ€™t making your child feel a certain way โ€“ itโ€™s just a result. The FAIR REQUEST is what your child wants you or the other person to do/not do/do differently next time. โ€œCan you ask him to give me the remote and find something else to do?โ€

Kids sometimes need several attempts at this โ€“ especially the FAIR REQUEST part – โ€œCan you send him to live with the neighbors?โ€ is not quite what weโ€™re going for. Help guide the request toward something reasonable and have your child keep a back-up plan in mind, just in case the first idea doesnโ€™t work out. โ€œCan I watch T.V. in your room?โ€ might work better.

So, all put together, an appropriate complaint might look like this (please imagine in your childโ€™s least whiny, most mature voice):

โ€œMom (only one syllable), Jake keeps changing the channel when Iโ€™m trying to watch something and I feel really frustrated. Can you ask him to give me the remote and find something else to do or can I watch T.V. in your room?โ€

Once your child knows the formula for making appropriate complaints, itโ€™s time to practice. First – and very importantly – youโ€™ll need to model the new skill. If youโ€™re nagging/begging/screaming at your child to clean her room, youโ€™re not complaining about the messy room in an appropriate way and might be teaching your child to whine or yell. Try this: โ€œI noticed that you havenโ€™t cleaned your room up yet and I asked you to get that done last night. Iโ€™m frustrated that it isnโ€™t done. Please get off of the computer now and clean your room.โ€

Follow up with consequences, positive (return to the computer) or bad (no more computer for the night), as necessary. Second, find a fun way for your kids to practice appropriate complaints. In my Social Skills Group, we play โ€œComplaint Jeopardyโ€ where I read a problematic situation and kids have to buzz in (using a host of hilarious noises they come up with) to give an appropriate
complaint for that situation. Third, when your child complains in an inappropriate way, praise his effort but ask him to re-phrase the complaint. โ€œThank you for telling me that your brother stole your markers โ€“ I want to help you with that. Letโ€™s try the complaint you had again using our 3 Fs so we can come up with a plan.โ€

If he canโ€™t use the formula, do it for him. Explain how the formula gives you the information to know whatโ€™s wrong, how he feels about it, and what he would like for you to do. Continue to give gentle reminders about appropriate complaints and donโ€™t act on the complaint until an appropriate complaint is used. Obviously, if your child is really upset, she probably wonโ€™t be able to follow the formula at first. Help her calm down and then try again. Finally, when you hear your child making an appropriate complaint (or at least attempting it), be sure to give praise. Tell her how the complaint was very clear and helped you to figure out what she needed. If possible, try to be appreciative if your child points out that you arenโ€™t using the 3 Fs formula โ€“ provided that he complains about your complaint appropriately (wink).

About this column: Send your parenting- and kid-related questions my way and Iโ€™ll tell you what I can: parentingwithaphd@gmail.com Please be aware that email is not a secure method of transmitting personal information so itโ€™s best to keep your questions general. If your question is featured, your name and email will not be published. Submitting a question does not constitute a professional relationship in any way and this column is not meant to substitute for face-to-face therapy. If you feel youโ€™re doing the best you can and still need help, it may be time to bring in a professional. Start by talking with your childโ€™s pediatrician to get a referral.

About Kristen:

Kristen Berthiaume, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist with Grayson and Associates. She obtained her doctorate in clinical psychology from the University of Kentucky. She completed a predoctoral internship in clinical psychology at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and a post- doctoral fellowship in the Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorders (ADHD) Program at Duke University Medical Center. She specializes in providing assessment and treatment of children, adolescents, and families dealing with the following issues: ADHD, learning disorders, social skill deficits, organizational problems, behavioral difficulties, anxiety, and depression. She generally focuses on behavioral and cognitive- behavioral techniques, but maintains a flexible approach to therapy. Her other day job is as mom to her daughters, ages seven and one, and four-year-old son.

Birmingham Events Calendar: July 6th – July 13th

Itโ€™s Not Our Fault if Your Kids are Bored!

If you’re into characters, Birmingham will have several making an appearance this week. Check out Scooby and Shaggy at the McWance Science Center and the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles at the Hoover Library. If you’re a Zoo Member, make plans to attend the Barons game on Monday night, Zoo Members get Free Admission!

Have a Great Week!

Sunday July 6th:

ETC Presents Vulcanโ€™s Underpants
Come get some fresh air and fresh comedy! Join ETC for our special brand of comedy โ€“ made up on the spot with your suggestions. Fun for your kids or your grandparents. Heck, we love the whole family! In case of inclement weather, we will update Facebook, Twitter and voicemail atย (205) 687-5233.
6pm

Birmingham Barons – Regions Field
vs. Tennessee Smokies
3pm

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Monday July 7th:

Monday Movie – Homewood Public Library
Come relax and watch a movie with family and friends at Homewood Public Library!
3pm

Story Laboratory: Robots – Hoover Public Library
Summer story time! Perfect for children under the age of four years.
9:30 and 10:30

Tot Time with Mrs. Eve. Dinomania โ€“ Avondale Library
Join us as we share stories, songs, and experiments to engage the backyard scientist in all of us! Stories, songs, and crafts geared for 2 to 4 year olds with a caregiver.ย  24-hour advance registration required.
10:30am

Birmingham Barons – Regions Field
vs. Tennessee Smokies
7:05pm
PLEASE NOTE: Zoo Members: As a membership benefit, onย Monday, July 7ย  youโ€™re invited to enjoy FREE admission to watch the Birmingham Barons play at Regions Field!ย Just bring your valid Member ID card and cheer on the hometown team during Zoo Member Nights at the Barons

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Tuesday July 8th:

Birmingham Barons – Regions Field
vs. Tennessee Smokies
7:05pm

Planet Earth – Emmet O’Neal Library
Lee Bryan and his stupendous one-man puppet show return with Planet Earth, Inc. All ages. No registration required.
10:30am

Marvels of Magnets – Avondale Library
Kids will be mesmerized with this exciting and educational exploration of science. They will learn about atoms, molecules, and matter. The show is full of experiments to impress and everyone is guaranteed a hair-raising good time. This program is truly booming with explosions, crazy chemistry, and volts and jolts. It will be a blast!
6pm

Reptiles Scales and Tails – Hoover Public Library
Reptiles Scales & Tails features live animals, audience participation and โ€œhands-onโ€ interaction.
10:30, 2pm and 6pm

Super Science Show with the McWane Science Center – Homewood Public Library
Join McWane Center and Homewood Public Library for some super science experiments and fun!
10:30am

Family Tours, What does a Warrior Wear โ€“ Birmingham Museum of Art
FREE // Meet in the Main Lobby
Join the Museum educators to explore the galleries in a fun, interactive experience! Discover Bart the Art Batโ€™s favorite artworks during these FREE, drop-in tours. After your tour, visit Bartโ€™s ArtVenture to make an art project inspired by what you saw. What will you discover?

What Does a Warrior Wear
10:30

Storytime – Barnes and Noble Summit
Grumpy days don’t have to stay that way. Find out how Elephant’s grumpy day changed and helped his friends, too!
11am

Storytime for All Ages โ€“ Homewood Public Library
Story Time
10:30am

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Wednesday July 9th:

Shifty Shenanigans – Avondale Library
If it looks like a duck and it quacks like a duck then…hey wait a minute, that’s not a duck. Join Ms. Cas for an afternoon full of shifty shenanigan storytime fun.ย 24-hour advanced notice of attendance required.
2pm

May the Force Be With You – Springville Road Library
Did you know that centrifugal force is a part of hula hooping? Be a member of the Centrifugal Force Club (CFC) as you listen to some tunes and learn how to move and groove with your hoop. The library is a circle of fun when the hoops start turning.
10am

Reptiles Scales and Tails – Hoover Public Library
Reptiles Scales & Tails features live animals, audience participation and โ€œhands-onโ€ interaction.
10:30 and 2pm

Family Story Time with Mr Mac โ€“ North Shelby Library
Storyteller Extraordinaire โ€“ Come join Mr Mac and his musical storytime complete with puppets! All Ages, no registration required.
10:45am

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Thursday July 10th:

Magic City Lego Mini Build – Homewood Public Library
Join us for a day of lego building!
REGISTRATION REQUIRED! Ages 5-12 welcome, please call (205) 332-6619 to register, or visit the Homewood Public Library Children’s Department.

Legos are provided for you, PLEASE, DO NOT BRING YOUR OWN LEGOS!
6:15pm

Reptiles Scales and Tails – Hoover Public Library
Reptiles Scales & Tails features live animals, audience participation and โ€œhands-onโ€ interaction.
10:30 and 2pm

Bubble and Squeak Balloons – Leeds Library
Colorful Balloons! Squeaky sounds and airfilled fun can all be yours this day!
2pm

Miss Kit’s Bubble School – Irondale Library
Join us as we enjoy “Miss Kit’s Bubble School,” a fun, interactive science and comedy event with audience participation.ย All Summer Reading events are free. Groups are asked to call ahead.
10:30

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Friday July 11th:

Scooby and Shaggy at McWane Science Center
Don’t miss your chance to meet two of the world’s most famous super sleuths, Scooby-Doo and Shaggy at McWane. Come for the fun and enjoy some Scooby snacks. Bring your camera to capture all your adventures.
Adults: $15/Kids: $12
Members: Adults: $12/Kids: $10
Advance reservations required. Call 714-8414 or visit www.mcwane.org.
6:30pm – 8:30pm

ย Science Gone Mad – Springville Road Library
Join us for crazy chemistry experiments! This program is intended for elementary school age children.
4pm

Music on Main – Downtown Columbiana
Music on Main 2014 is a free concert in Main Street in Columbiana. Bring your own lawn chair.
Music By: Randy Glenn Band- Shelby Countyโ€™s local favorite with a great following.
6:30 – 9:30pm

Zumba – Homewood Public Library
Get up and moving with friends and family at Homewood Public Library!
10:30am

City of Pelham Golden Jubilee – Pelham Civic Complex
The City of Pelham and the Pelham Beautification Board invite you to be a part of celebrating the City of Pelham’s Golden Jubileeย  We expect a fun evening and a great day of shopping, children’s activites, food and music. Our event offers free admission; ice skating, music and children’s activities. We hope you are able to join us as we mark the 50th year in our city’s history.
5pm – 9pm

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Saturday July 12th

City of Pelham Golden Jubilee – Pelham Civic Complex
The City of Pelham and the Pelham Beautification Board invite you to be a part of celebrating the City of Pelham’s Golden Jubileeย  We expect a fun evening and a great day of shopping, children’s activites, food and music. Our event offers free admission; ice skating, music and children’s activities. We hope you are able to join us as we mark the 50th year in our city’s history.
9am – 10pm

Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles – Hoover Public Library
Hereos in a halfshell are here for an awesome adventure. Cowabunga!ย  All ages
10:30am

Family Tours, What does a Warrior Wear โ€“ Birmingham Museum of Art
FREE // Meet in the Main Lobby
Join the Museum educators to explore the galleries in a fun, interactive experience! Discover Bart the Art Batโ€™s favorite artworks during these FREE, drop-in tours. After your tour, visit Bartโ€™s ArtVenture to make an art project inspired by what you saw. What will you discover?

What Does a Warrior Wear
10:30

Family Storytime โ€“ Emmet Oโ€™Neal Library
Bring the entire family and join Mr. Mac for stories and music each Saturday morning.
10:30 a.m.

Storytime โ€“ Barnes and Noble Summit
The Numberlys Storytime, featuring reading and activities for children ages 3 to 7.
11am

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Sunday July 13th:

Summer Film Series: To Kill a Mockingbird – Alabama Theatre
Atticus Finch, a lawyer in the Depression-era South, defends a black man against an undeserved rape charge, and his kids against prejudice. 129 min. NR.
There will be a sing-along and Mighty Wurlitzer performance before each film.
Tickets are $8 and will be available at the door or in advance through Ticketmaster.
2pm – 4pm

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Local Attractions Open Daily!

McWane Science Center:

IMAX
McWane Science Centerโ€™s IMAXยฎ Dome Theater puts you in the center of the action by projecting breathtaking quality images onto the 5-story-tall dome screen and delivering intense surround sound through almost 3 tons of speakers and subwoofers.
Now Showing: Tornado Alley, Great White Shark, To the Arctic, Island of Lemurs: Madagascar

Birmingham Zoo:

Lorikeet Aviary โ€“ Our Lorikeet Aviary has more birds than ever! Zoo guests can feed these exotic birds every day. You and your family will see these birdsโ€™ behavior as they eat nectar out of your hand.
Weekends 10:00 am โ€“ 4:00 pm

PELICAN FEEDING – A great way to see our pelicans in action is to witness them eating their favorite treats near the pelican boardwalk.

RHINO ENCOUNTER โ€“ Embark on an African adventure and experience one of the worldโ€™s most extraordinary animals, the Southern White Rhino. Watch from only feet away as our zookeepers engage in hands-on interaction with the animals inside their African-themed exhibit. Donโ€™t miss this exciting encounter with one of the largest mammals on the planet!
Weekdays: 3pm โ€“ 3:30pm
Weekends: 11:30am โ€“ Noon & 3pm โ€“ 3:30 pm

GIRAFFE FEEDING โ€“ This up close and personal animal encounter is a memory you and your family will have for a lifetime.
Weekday: 11am โ€“ Noon
Weekends: 10am โ€“ 11amย  & 2pm โ€“ 3pm

Vulcan Park and Museum:

Vulcan is the worldโ€™s largest cast iron statue; made of 100,000 pounds of iron and 56 feet tall, he stands at the top of Red Mountain overlooking the city of Birmingham. But, Vulcan is more than a statue. Vulcan Park and Museum features spectacular views of Birmingham, an interactive history museum that examines Vulcan and Birminghamโ€™s story, and a beautiful public park for visitors and locals to enjoy. With an official information center that is operated by the Greater Birmingham Convention and Visitors Bureau, Vulcan Park and Museum serves as the first stop for visitors to the Birmingham area!

Railroad Park:

Railroad Park is a 19 acre green space in downtown Birmingham that celebrates the industrial and artistic heritage of our great city. Situated along 1st Avenue South, between 14th and 18th Streets, the park is a joint effort between the City of Birmingham and the Railroad Park Foundation. Hailed as โ€œBirminghamโ€™s Living Room,โ€ Railroad Park provides a historically rich venue for local recreation, family activities, concerts, and cultural events, while connecting Birminghamโ€™s downtown area with Southside and UABโ€™s campus.

Southern Museum of Flight:

Earn Your Wings โ€“ Bring your little pilot and soar above the clouds in our little pilots room. Kids enjoy building aircrafts, flying kites, and more.
Museum Open Tuesday โ€“ Thursday
9:30am โ€“ 4:30pm

Do you have or know of an event you would like to have added to our weekly calendar? Please email us at contact@birminghammommy.com, subject line โ€œEvents Calendarโ€ โ€“ We would love to hear from you!

** All information listed on our calendar is subject to change without notice to us or youโ€ฆ We do our best to keep the information accurate and will always update as soon as we learn that something has changed. Itโ€™s always best to double check with the event via their website or a quick call,ย  especially when weather can impact the event.

52 New Things, 2014. Week 26

Here’s what we did that was new over the 4th of July Holiday!

Angie-
I made a Tomato Pie. Which is funny because I don’t actually like tomatoes. But my friend swore it didn’t taste like tomatoes and it really didn’t. It was actually very tasty! It was a huge hit at our 4th of July Cookout and has now been deemed my “thing” to bring to all gatherings.

Kristen-
My New Thing is going on an impromptu 4th of July photo scavenger hunt with friends. A mannequin wearing and American Flag Bikini may have been involved. (Does that sound dirty? Nothing was done to the mannequin, just a picture.)

Shirley-
We went to Noccalula Falls and hiked under the falls. It’s a really cool spot for a photo op!

 

Share your new thing with us! We would love to know what you did!

Tips for Boat Safety

Holiday Weekends mean lots of people will be headed to the lake and beach. While many parents worry about their childrenโ€™s safety around swimming pools, as they should and need to do, drowning incidents can also occur in natural bodies of water.

Safety precautions need to be taken around all water environments. According to the Center for Disease Control, about half of all drowning incidents occur in natural water settings such as lakes, rivers, or oceans. And, almost 75% of people killed in boating
accidents die as a result of drowning. There are steps parents can be taking to keep their children safer in the water. The United States Swim School Association has put together the following guidelines to help keep children safe while boating this summer.

โ€ข Make sure your children know how to properly wear a lifejacket. And always have children under 12 wear a life jacket at all times when boating or using personal watercraft.

โ€ข Personal floatation devices (PFDs) should always be U.S. Coast Guard approved. Never substitute water wings or other recreational type floating toys for an approved PFD.

โ€ข Create a water safety plan for your family and have water emergency drills with your kids covering how to recognize the signs of someone struggling in water and what to do in this type of emergency.

โ€ข Teach your children the โ€œthrow donโ€™t goโ€ rescue method. Instead of entering the water to help a struggling person, teach your child to throw in a rope, reach with a stick, paddle or other object to pull the person in.

โ€ข If you take your kids on a shore excursion while boating, be aware of tides and currents and other risks the ocean or beach may have.

โ€ข Non-motorized boats can also pose a risk. If your family is canoeing or kayaking be sure your child is wearing a life jacket and knows what to do if the boat flips.

โ€ข If your child is playing near a natural body of water and accidentally falls in, teach your child to roll over on his or her back and float until help arrives if exiting the water is not an option.

โ€ข Never use floatation devices or water wings to keep your child safe in the water. Rely on your direct supervision.

Swimming lessons are a great addition to help keep your child safer while boating and around open water. For more information about swimming lessons and water safety and to find a Unites States Swim School Association member swim school near you,

visit: www.usswimschools.org.

About US Swim School Association:

US Swim School Association (USSSA) began in 1988 to fill a gap in the swim school industry. USSSA has become the largest and preeminent swim school association in the country with over 400 members providing swim and water safety instruction to over 500,000 students each year. Swim schools receive invaluable benefits as USSSA members, receiving the latest training in water safety, swim instruction methods and tools, invitations to annual conferences, and many other benefits that help establish and build each individual business. Through USSSA, parents and students are provided with a reliable and trustworthy resource when searching for a swim school and can rest assured they have chosen a top school when they choose a USSSA affiliated location. For
more information, visit www.usswimschools.org

 

Photo Credit: <a href=”https://www.flickr.com/photos/jasonpier/3831632675/”>Jason Pier in DC</a> via <a href=”http://photopin.com”>photopin</a> <a href=”http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc/2.0/”>cc</a>

Throwback Thursday Kids Club: Alabama Theatre

2 of our favorite places in Birmingham and they’re on the same block! Check out this special programming happening Thursdays in July!

Throwback Thursday Kids Club wants to help the now generation make modern memories at The Alabama Theatre! Each Thursday in July, youโ€™re invited to treat your kids to a classic throwback family film including fun activities and live entertainment before the feature presentation. Youโ€™ll enjoy free parking, McWane Adventure Hall discounts and much more! Donโ€™t let your kids miss the grandeur of the Alabama Theatre, the Showplace of the South!

Tickets are $2 for kids and $5 for adults. Kids MUST be accompanied by an adult.

Doors open at 9 am to start activities, and the movie begins at 10.

July 10: The Original Muppet Movie
July 17: Return to Witch Mountain
July 24: Chitty Chitty Bang Bang
July 31: Bedknobs & Broomsticks